A planned c-section: the pre-op

This post is terribly late, and so much has happened since. Also, this post was originally intended to be a kind of ‘what to expect at a planned section pre-op appointment’ since lots of people were asking me what the appointment entailed. But it turned out that my pre-op appointment didn’t exactly go to plan. At all.

a planned c section_ the pre-op~ Ghostwritermummy.co.uk

I waited almost two hours on the busy antenatal assessment unit, listening to the midwives hurry here and there and the machines beep and whirr. My own hands never left my belly, resting there waiting to feel the poppyseed kick. Since my last steroid jab, things had gone quiet again and I was waiting to go on the CTG to set my mind at rest once more. I’d also been unable to sleep so had been up and anxious since 4am, which wasn’t helping matters. By the time the midwife eventually arrived with the paperwork and medications, I was a mess.

Reduced movements, again. Nothing to do with the steroids, despite what Doctor Google had reassured me earlier. My midwife strapped me to the monitor straight away, seeing how upset I was and having read of my history. I was told to sit tight for 30 minutes, and to call if baby’s heart rate deviated from between 100-160. It’s a long 30 minutes when your eyes are fixed on those jumping numbers. When you want them to read 100, 110, 120… When they jump erratically and your heart jumps with them.

After the 30 minutes were up, the straps were removed and the second set of steroids were given. OUCH.

Then the pre-op.

Bloods were taken first. This was so that my surgical team had a sample of my blood in case a match was needed for a transfusion during or after my section.

c section pre-op bloods~Ghostwritermummy.co.uk

I was given two pre-op energy drinks to take with my pre-op medication (one Ranitidine tablet to take that night, and one Ranitidine tablet to take with a Metocloprimide tablet and the two drinks in the morning) and reassured that my MRSA swabs had come back negative.

planned section_ pre-op energy drinks~ Ghostwritermummy.co.uk

The midwife then went through the standard set of questions for a c-section, including my reasons for wanting an ‘elective’. At this point, I felt compelled to tell her that my c-section wasn’t elective. Despite my doctor writing that the reason for my section was the fact that I had had three previous sections already, I needed to tell her I disagreed with that. Three previous sections was  not enough for me to ‘elect’ to go through it a fourth time. Three previous sections were exactly the reason why I didn’t want a fourth section. My section was planned, not elective. Planned due to IUGR. Because my body wasn’t growing my baby well enough. Because in reality, my body wanted to keep this one inside for at least another 5 weeks. It wasn’t our time yet, we weren’t electing anything.

But I consented.

I signed my name because I knew it was the safest thing to do. I knew that the hospital were not happy for me to stay pregnant any longer. I knew our time was up.

So, questions answered, bloods taken, steroids given, signature written… we were done. All that was left to do was to go back on to the CTG to get one more trace of baby. One last chance to monitor that little heart beat, to watch those numbers jump and to be sent on my way. My midwife mentioned that due to some readings from the CTG and the fact that I had been in for repeated reduced movements quite a lot in this pregnancy, she wanted to speak to the doctor before I was allowed to go home.

c section pre-op~ ghostwritermummy.co.uk

Another doctor. Another new face. Another medical professional that had no prior knowledge of me, or my history. And the words you need to be admitted. We want to keep an eye on baby. We’re not happy with the way things look at the moment. We want you to stay for monitoring overnight.

I wasn’t prepared, and yet my midwife admitted that she’d known this would happen. She put her arm round me as I cried, and she told me that it was for the best. That baby and I would be safer in the hospital tonight. If anything were to happen, as they feared they might, they wanted to be able to act quickly.

And so shaky legs took me home to collect my bags, and the children, and to say goodbye. Our last night as a family of five cut short. The last chance to kiss The Toddler and try to explain that she would no longer be the baby of the family. The last chance to see my babies as a trio. No time to hold them and to whisper that I would be home soon. No smiles and flutters of excitement as we got ready to meet out baby. Instead, we were scared. We were heading towards the unknown, already convinced that things were not going to turn out as we’d hoped they would.


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  1. Rebecca Taylor
    November 5, 2014 / 9:42 pm

    It’s amazing how different the process is from hospital to hospital. Your experience of an elective c section is completely different to mine! So pleased all went well. 🙂

    • ghostwritermummy
      November 6, 2014 / 9:52 am

      Yes I’ve found that even in the two years since Bella was born at this hospital things have changed massively. And thank you! x x x

    • ghostwritermummy
      November 6, 2014 / 9:51 am

      Haha yes at least I know I get to write a happy ending! I wanted to write all of this before she was born but couldn’t, so its quite soothing to be able to do it now x x

    • ghostwritermummy
      November 6, 2014 / 9:51 am

      Ah thanks lovely. I felt the need to write about the end of my pregnancy, since I expected to be able to do it the night before the section. Its quite therapeutic x x x

  2. November 6, 2014 / 10:06 am

    I’m so glad Elsie Rose arrived safe and well. I found what you say about your ‘elective’ section not actually being elective particularly poignant – it shows how important the words health professionals choose to use are, and the way they are said – not to mention the fact that each and every one of us is individual, and we don’t always fit in to neat little tick boxes. Words can have an enormous impact on us, and especially when you are in such a vulnerable, emotional position. xxx #brilliantblogposts
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    • ghostwritermummy
      November 8, 2014 / 5:50 pm

      Thank you 🙂 I’ve said all along that if I ended with a section it would be not exactly against my will but certainly against my wishes in a sense. And to see the words ‘elective’ on the consent form was just wrong. x x x

  3. November 6, 2014 / 1:58 pm

    I am a new reader and I have read in the comments above that theres a happy ending to this story and I am so glad. I real scary experience. #brillblogposts
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    • ghostwritermummy
      November 8, 2014 / 5:49 pm

      Thank you x x x

  4. November 6, 2014 / 7:43 pm

    I’m so glad that your little one arrived safely in the end – this must have been so scary for you and hard too to have that ‘last night’ taken away even though it was for the best. I definitely agree with you on the use of the word ‘elective’ – ‘planned’ is a much better word.
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    • ghostwritermummy
      November 8, 2014 / 5:49 pm

      Thank you, yes Elsie arrived safely in the end 🙂 x x x

  5. November 6, 2014 / 8:17 pm

    Sounds like a right ordeal. Poor you. Glad to hear there’s a happy baby shaped ending! X
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    • ghostwritermummy
      November 8, 2014 / 5:48 pm

      Haha yes there is a very lovely baby shaped ending coming up!! xx x

  6. November 7, 2014 / 3:54 pm

    I had an emergency section so it’s interesting reading what happens in an elective section (although I know yours wasn’t). You must be so relieved now your little bundle is here and you can enjoy her x
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    • ghostwritermummy
      November 8, 2014 / 5:44 pm

      I’ve had emergency sections too and now that I’ve had two planned sections I guess I’ve experienced it all. I’m about to write up the section now x x

  7. November 7, 2014 / 9:29 pm

    I also had the same “This isn’t elective, I’m not choosing this” conversation at my pre op. I will never call my third section elective. I didn’t choose anything.
    Interesting that they gave you energy drinks! I’d have loved those. I was just complete nil by mouth from midnight the night before and even once I’d had my section wasn’t allowed any lunch! I’m always envious of these mums that talk of post birth tea and toast! x
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    • ghostwritermummy
      November 8, 2014 / 5:42 pm

      I’m glad it didn’t come across as pedantic. I didn’t choose this c-section and everyone who knows me, knows that. And yes, I’ve never had tea and toast post birth either! x x x

  8. November 9, 2014 / 11:06 pm

    Oh darling, so glad all turned out well, remember that fear from my first, you are brave sweetie and you did the right thing and I know how hard it was, you are so strong, lots of love x
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    • ghostwritermummy
      November 10, 2014 / 10:31 pm

      Thank you x x x

  9. Toinfinityandivf
    November 13, 2014 / 4:42 pm

    Oh gosh I had no idea your last night with your family was cut short. 🙁 pre-ops are so daunting I find as they’re forever listing out all the risks that they’re required to do. And all you can do is sign really. I’m so glad it all ended well x
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    • ghostwritermummy
      November 13, 2014 / 9:27 pm

      It wasn’t part of the plan!! Haha all was well in the end though 🙂 x x

  10. April
    October 13, 2017 / 4:49 am

    Iv had 1 c-section but that was emergency because my son btoke my water early & was breech for 2 weeks that was 2 a half years ago

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