Co-Parenting Well: 7 Tips to Make It Work

Planning schedules, switching houses, or organizing holiday – raising a child in two different homes is far from a piece of cake. Whether this situation is the result of a divorce or a separation or whether you’ve chosen to raise a child with a co-parent, there are certain rules to follow to make co-parenting work. For instance, co-parenting well is about good organization, effective communication and finding the best arrangement to make everyone as happy as possible. Here are a few tips to help you co-parent in a healthy way.Co-Parenting Well: 7 Tips to Make It Work_Ghostwritermummy.co.uk

It’s about your child’s needs

When you go through a divorce or a separation, it’s normal to be overwhelmed by emotions such as anger or resentment. However, no matter how bad you feel, you must try not to let this affect your kids. If you need help and advice, it’s best to seek support from your family, friends or a therapist. Your kids will be so much happier if they see their mum and dad happy too. (more…)

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Please Follow Sun Safety Guidelines, and Teach Your Kids About Them Too

Please Follow Sun Safety Guidelines, and Teach Your Kids About Them TooI was recently contacted by Boots Soltan who wanted to let me know about their new app, the Soltan Sun Ready Challenge. Being fair skinned myself, I’ve suffered sun burn in the past and I know just how painful it can be. I also now know how dangerous the long term effects of sunburn can be too. Early over exposure to the sun can increase a child’s risk of developing melanoma (skin cancer) and surely that’s a risk that no parent wants to take. But then you have the fact that kids are notoriously bad at having sun cream applied. Well, mine are anyway. Faced with the prospect of two hourly wrestling matches with slippery and nimble small people, nobody would blame us for skipping one or two re-applications would they?

Please, please don’t skip re-applications of sun cream. Not even one. Please follow sun safety guidelines, and teach your kids about them too. (more…)

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Dear Motherhood… Sometimes I Hate You

Dear Motherhood… I love you. I really do. I love hearing my name being called when the house is silent and a little person has woken, thinking of me- ME!- before anything or anyone else. I love that I can hold their little bodies against mine and literally feel their heart begin to slow, to drop into rhythm with my own. I love that their heads fit perfectly into that little nook between my shoulder and my chin, so that they can nestle there for cuddles no matter how old or how big they are getting. I love that. I love you. But I need to tell you that sometimes I hate you too.

Dear Motherhood_Ghostwritermummy.co.ukSometimes you make me lonely. Back when my tummy was huge and my circle of friends was tiny, you took advantage of me. You swamped me with hormones, made me believe I was invincible. Made me think that I didn’t need anybody. Fooled me into thinking that all I needed in the world was my baby, and that was it. And for a long time, I took you at your word. I was that ‘super mum’ I’d dreamt of being, and you made it so easy for me first time around. It seemed so natural to put a baby to my breast and to hold her forever in a haze of warmth and love and utter contentment. It seemed so natural to think only of my baby and never of myself. It seemed so natural to want to do it again. You were so good for me. (more…)

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Our Num Noms Collection… Series Three

A little while ago Ghostwriterdaddy and I were talking about how the kids don’t really collect things like we used to. I was so SO proud of my rubber collection. I had them all stored in an old Quality Street tin and would literally spending hours just sniffing them. I was easily pleased- don’t tell me I’m the only one! My favourite was a little pink ferrari that smelled of strawberries… so anyway. There seems to be so much stuff / toys in our house, but nothing that has really caught their attention and made them want to start a collection. They’ve had Match Attax cards, squinkies, Lego cards… but nothing sticks. That was, until Bella discovered Num Noms. And now, apparently, we have a collection in the making. Here are my thoughts on our Num Noms collection… series three.Our Num Noms Collection... series three_Ghostrwritermummy.co.uk

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